I don't think most board game players/lovers are cheaters, on the contrary.
it's a matter of staying true to the game or playing a different game...
if you stay true, then at least you have the choice:
- honnest people can have it as intended
- dishonnest people can have the full info as you ...

part of the beauty of this game relies heavily on its "hidden information" component : it creates tension and guessing, not knowing exactly where the others stand, just TRYING to remember which color points they got a lot and most importantly the colors they lack !
remember: your end game score is ...

Tzutzu1234 wrote:It is possible to connect three kingdoms in the same time?

this is an illegal move.
p.6 from the FFG rulebook: "A tile cannot be placed where it would unite more than two kingdoms."